The day i opened my eyes in this world, i was not aimed. When i started feeling i got emotions with me. In school i started to look something which is called as need. Need mean anything which i require at most level so that i can't live without. So with the growing age my need increased from toys, food to good marks, winning games matches. From these matches at high school i started looking towards aim - aim to score good position, aim to study, aim to make career.
Career starts for every person at 9th standard as they start preparing for board exams. Passing those exams of secondary school becomes the need for every student. For some it raises to score 99% for some it is about getting position in state and country level. This hunger for good marks makes us fulfill the need of right stream. That leads to right university, right college, right courses at graduation level. Then comes the need of right job that can fulfill my basic need. After that familiy feels need of life partner for us. This is the stage from when my need becomes our need. Need of the family, need of children and again whole cycle repeats.
But is this actual need? Is this for what i came to world? Ever my need finished? Ever it get fulfilled?
This question make me sit to right this blog and ask god actually what is my need?
My need was to live - But i ever lived? Yes i lived when i smiled, i lived when i cried, I lived when i surprised, i lived when i sacrificed. I lived when i made someone happy. Why to regret for anything when we have such small needs? These basic need get skipped when we start misunderstanding our wishes as need. When we forget line of difference between need and wish. Needs are limited and basic whereas wishes are unlimited and may be or may not be achieved. Wishes are endless but need is always have base and are easy to fulfill.
My need is food, my wish is restaurant, my need is house my wishes are villas, my need is conveyance mode my wishes are Mercedes, my need is job, my wishes are for mnc, my need is marriage my wishes are for love marriage, my need is phone, my wishes are for 3G, my need is best friend, my wishes are for social network, my need is being happy, my wishes are luxury life.
So simple to understand but so difficult to believe about gap between you need and wishes. You must understand the need of happiness, the need of smile. So always try to be happy and Spread Smiles that makes you Begin to Win !
Career starts for every person at 9th standard as they start preparing for board exams. Passing those exams of secondary school becomes the need for every student. For some it raises to score 99% for some it is about getting position in state and country level. This hunger for good marks makes us fulfill the need of right stream. That leads to right university, right college, right courses at graduation level. Then comes the need of right job that can fulfill my basic need. After that familiy feels need of life partner for us. This is the stage from when my need becomes our need. Need of the family, need of children and again whole cycle repeats.
But is this actual need? Is this for what i came to world? Ever my need finished? Ever it get fulfilled?
This question make me sit to right this blog and ask god actually what is my need?
My need was to live - But i ever lived? Yes i lived when i smiled, i lived when i cried, I lived when i surprised, i lived when i sacrificed. I lived when i made someone happy. Why to regret for anything when we have such small needs? These basic need get skipped when we start misunderstanding our wishes as need. When we forget line of difference between need and wish. Needs are limited and basic whereas wishes are unlimited and may be or may not be achieved. Wishes are endless but need is always have base and are easy to fulfill.
My need is food, my wish is restaurant, my need is house my wishes are villas, my need is conveyance mode my wishes are Mercedes, my need is job, my wishes are for mnc, my need is marriage my wishes are for love marriage, my need is phone, my wishes are for 3G, my need is best friend, my wishes are for social network, my need is being happy, my wishes are luxury life.
So simple to understand but so difficult to believe about gap between you need and wishes. You must understand the need of happiness, the need of smile. So always try to be happy and Spread Smiles that makes you Begin to Win !
